The Forgotten Secret Of the Ancient Greeks that Shows us How to Keep Our Teenagers Out of Trouble by Teaching them to Fight!

And a time to every purpose under the heaven:societal level he notes that a just community is made
A time to be born, and a time to die;up of a number of vital components parts: rulers who
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which isgovern, workers who labour, and an army that
planted;functions to protect them both. In the individual he finds
A time to kill, and a time to heal;a similar configuration - the mind that governs the body,
A time to break down, athe limbs that do the work, and the 'themos' (which is
Four of the boys at training tonight are preparingoften translated as 'temper' or 'aggression') that plays
themselves for their first fight at our forthcominga parallel role in protecting the individual. Justice in the
Christians vs. Lions promotion, scheduled for only threeRepublic consists in having all of the component parts
weeks hence. All of these lads are boxers.(in either individual or society) being present and
Three of those four - Joel, Daniel and young Dave -working together properly.
are friends, finishing their last year of school together.In the wisdom of the ancient Greeks then, the 'themos'
They are a great example of how guys from differentis the vital third component in the human constitution,
ethnic backgrounds (Australian, Latin American, andalong with the mind and the body. Without the 'themos',
Lebanese respectively) can still be the best of mates.no individual is complete, and at a social level, no
The fourth guy, Louis, is an enormous Islander man. I'msociety will ever achieve a true state of justice.
not sure whether he's Tongan or from the CookIt is my opinion that one of the negative legacies of
Islands, but he's a gentle giant really. He reminds me offeminism in Western culture has been an attempt to
Mahendar - a regular here at the Youth Centre.deny the 'themos', which seems to be more strongly
They're both big, black and burly, but with gentle hearts.present in men than in women. This has been for the
Louis has a few years on the other boys who weremost understandable of reasons - because of the
there tonight. He's a natural in the ring, and plays theexcesses of male violence. But perhaps it's time that
role of the older brother very well indeed.we realised that trying to eliminate 'themos' from
These four boys are the cream of our crop in the fightsociety altogether is like trying to eliminate spiders and
club at the moment. They are all capable pugilists, butsnakes because we find them distasteful. We soon
more than that, they are each a good embodiment ofdiscover that the created order needs all of its
what our club is on about - courage, integrity,creatures - even those that some of us find ugly - if it
self-discipline and teamwork. This isn't to say that noneis to function properly.
of them have ever been troublemakers. Indeed, I'veMy experience with a vast number of men is that they
got a court appearance coming up with one of thetend to be either functioning as doormats to their
boys, scheduled for shortly after his fight, and he's onwives and girlfriends, or they're beating up on them.
quite serious charges. Even so, I've seen nothing butThis is a reflection of the same crisis in dealing with the
positive growth since he joined the club, and I'm hoping'themos'. When we attempt to repress the themos', it
for positive results both in his fight and in his courtoften spurts out in the most horrible and destructive of
case.What is it that makes fight training such aforms. When we successfully repress it, we
powerful tool in the molding of young lives? There wasemasculate our men, so that they're no longer able to
a time when I thought of fighting as just another formstand up for anything. Ironically, of course, such modern
of sport. I have come to believe though that fightday men are not only unable to offer any strength to
training taps into something deep in the male psyche, insociety. They're no longer even attractive to the
a way that no other sport does.women they sought to please.
When I used to talk to my old girls in the church aboutThe only constructive alternative is for us to reharness
the problems we had with our young people, theythe 'themos' and channel it creatively. We need to get
often used to say 'what we need is another war'. Iin touch with that distinctive male energy - recognise it,
always thought that that was a terrible thing to say -affirm it, and then learn to bring it under control so that
that a war was the last thing that anybody wanted.it can be put to good use. Perhaps when we are able
And of course the girls didn't really want a war. Theyto do this, then we will see this country produce
had just experienced the benefit of being part of aleaders of the calibre of Martin Luther King Jr., Mother
community that had learnt to pull together throughTheresa, or Mahatma Ghandi - strong people of
difficult times. And they had seen the positive effectprinciple who stand up powerfully for what they
that soldiering could have on the lives of young men.believe in. As it is, our leaders always seem to come
I believe that men were made to fight. It's part of ouracross as being either 'wooses' or criminals or both.
genetic makeup. We may have managed to emergeGod knows we need some real men in this country
from the jungle, but there's still a bit of the jungle inwho know what it means to love their women, to be
each of us, and pugilistic activity keys right in to thosefathers to their children, and to serve God and their
ancient impulses - releasing the wild man within.community with their strength!
This theory isn't original to me of course. It's part of theFight training, I do believe, is a means to getting at that
fabric of the Bible - there behind every great'themos' and learning to bring it under control. When
warrior-king who showed himself to be a 'mighty mandone in the right way, fight training can help a young
of God' in battle, and behind Jacob, who went toe toperson to discover who they are and can help them
toe with God Himself and yet lived to talk about itto bring their futures into focus. They can then come
(Genesis 32)! These were men who knew how toto see their role as warriors in this society who will
fight and pray and bleed and serve.stand up and use their energy to build a better
For a more philosophical exposition on the significancecommunity and to fight for things worth fighting
of fighting, we need look no further than Plato'sfor.What about these boys who I watched training with
Republic.me tonight? Will they go on to become 'mighty men of
For those who haven't read it, in the Republic SocratesGod'? I don't know. But they're on the right track, and
explores the concept of justice through examining boththey're further ahead now than when they first started
the just society and the just individual, and then hetheir training.
goes on to delineate their common elements. On the