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Article #85: The Attack On The Mail Order Brides Industry (Part Two)

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The "mail order brides" industry is should be ashamed Amy, it is you.
continually attacked by feminist groups "Lower your standards to what you can
pushing politically to prohibit men reasonably attain, and leave these poor,
accessing foreign women. This article vulnerable women alone. I want to cry
demonstrates the argument against "mail when I think of the horror these women
order brides" services is primarily face when they are stuck with losers like
emotional. you."
"So you provide these things to lure I feel very sorry for you Amy. Your
vulnerable young women away from lives of self-inflicted pain comes from a vision
poverty." of terror that does not exist. I hope it
Amy if you were to tell these women that is not too late for you to feel better
they lead lives of poverty they would about yourself. I invite you to answer
slap you in the face. The poverty of a all the questions I have asked, and by
woman's pocket is meaningless to an that I do not mean respond. I mean
American man. The impoverishment of a actually answer my questions, surprise me
woman soul, heart and values is not. with an exchange void of glaring lies and
Foreign women would consider you the poor insulting attacks. Can you raise yourself
person for having the latter. One of the to those standards? If what you believe
many reasons they are drawn to American is true, you should have no difficulty in
men is because we can recognize such presenting a logical, rightful position.
difference, as do they. Now if you don't mind, I have to eat
Amy aren't these women adults free to dinner, burned rice.
make responsible adult decisions? I have Jamie
women on my website over 50 years old, at Engage the Exotic
what age is a woman able to make a "I would like to say that I am sorry for
decision on her own without you launching a personal attack on you, a
denouncing her ability to do so? My last total stranger. I have just heard so many
engagement was with a couple both in horror stories about these kinds of
their 40's is she another vulnerable, things. But I did let my anger at these
young woman Amy? Who should validate if injustices get the better of me, and I
these women are too young or vulnerable should not have."
in deciding who and when to marry, you Amy apologizes for the personal attack;
Amy? Or do you suggest we form a yet what injustice and horror stories is
committee to make such a decision for she referring to? It appears she is
them? saying that foreign women from developing
Earlier you said women look for positive countries that marry American men are at
qualities in a partner, but at the same risk. But she does not say what this risk
time, you don't believe these women look is, why they are at risk, to what extent
for such qualities. What makes you think they are at risk or if the risk is any
these women are materialistic oriented. different than any American man or
Is it possible that you are the American woman would face being married.
materialist and can't comprehend other Amy does not factor in any evidence to
women outlooks being different then justify her emotional outcry. Her anger
yours? is based on a false conclusion.
"Are you at all embarrassed or ashamed "That said, I do find your website
about that?" extremely offensive and inflammatory in
Amy I am very proud and happy in what I that you stereotype and degrade American
do. What is even more important is the women by saying that men can find
happiness and joy I bring to the couples "younger, more beautiful women than what
we bring together. It appears the only is locally available" in Latin America."
people who are not happy are people like This fact does not degrade American
you who enjoy intervening in other women. It speaks of the competitive
people's happiness. As I said to you advantage that American men have
before, you won't directly talk to these internationally due to qualities that
women because it would only corroborate foreign women appreciate and are often
what I have been telling you. They select not accustomed to from the local men.
men for marriage out of love for that What I believe you find "offensive" is
man. You won't talk to the ones that have American men selecting a foreign wife
been married for 5 years, you won't talk that you consider to be of lower caliber
to the ones that have been married for 10 than American women.
years, and you won't talk to my Mom a "That statement does not speak very
foreign bride happily married to my dad highly of your customers - it also
for over 45 years. She raised five stereotypes them (as shallow)."
children and had a career working for one Why is it shallow to appreciate beauty
company for over 30 years. They now lead and youth? You can claim beauty is
a life of world travel, family visits and superficial, but the reality is most of
volunteer work. No I do not think you us want to be beautiful (women more so
will talk with such women. The thought of than men) and most men enjoy the company
your false, shallow book-learned ideals of beautiful looking women. If we want
being shattered by the realties of their chocolate instead of broccoli you telling
happiness and real life perspective would us that broccoli has more nutrition and
be just too incongruent for your substance than chocolate does not make us
entrenched twisted views. superficial for our selection of
"You do realize that there is nothing chocolate.
about you as a person that would make "It is ironic because you imply that
anyone want to marry you, only things American women place too much importance
that you happen to possess by virtue of on money and personality, and then you
being lucky enough to be born in the appeal to the superficial and shallow
U.S." aspects of your customers who are placing
Amy I am a typical American man. My importance on age and physical
possessions are average and everything I appearance."
possess came from hard work and endeavor. People do not consider youth and beauty
No woman's eyes are going to pop-out by as irrelevant as you do. At no time do I
looking at my possessions. I would have say this is all that men want and at no
to say you are the lucky one Amy. Very time does wanting a beautiful, young,
few places in the world can a woman say foreign wife correlate to superficiality
such reckless and unsubstantiated on their part. What you are doing is no
believes as you have without different than calling someone shallow
consequences. But you live in the United and superficial for playing paddle ball
States, so you can promote unproductive on the beach instead of chess in the den.
agendas and extol feminist myths with no "Do these men seem any more noble than
consequences for the damage that entails the American women (as you describe them)
from your deceptive messages. How lucky that they are trying to avoid?"
you are. But you know what; your I never said these men are trying to
misguided view does not penetrate my "avoid" American women. I am pronouncing
well-being. You are correct in calling me that they have other alternatives to
lucky. I often tell my beautiful wife American women, an extension of their
Karina how lucky I am to have met her, search horizon.
and you know what Amy... she tells me the "I understand that these are marketing
same thing. tactics and you must appeal to your
"You are trying to get something you do customers. But relationships are not
not deserve: love, loyalty, respect, trade negotiations, where one party says:
companionship." "o.k., I am bringing X beauty points to
Amy everything you have said is nothing the table and Y personality points, what
more then an emotional diatribe you does that buy me?""
provide no content to your message. You Every relationship is an exchange, and
are nothing more then a name caller. I yes a form of negotiations is taking
can only imagine that if you had any place. They may be exchanging your love
physical strength you would also be a and support for my love and support or
bully. any of a variety of role designations.
"News Flash: If you have to pay someone What each party brings to the table may
to be around you, then the relationship not be directly negotiated, but an
is not real." evaluation is taking place on how a
I would agree. Why do you bring this up? potential partner attributes meets your
The men do not pay for the woman and the desires and needs. Yet none of this has
women do not pay for the man. anything to do with a "buy" and this
"Accept the fact that you are a loser, decision making process goes on whether
doomed to be alone, or content yourself we are aware of it or not and it is a
with finding another loser like yourself good way of determining if both are a
who may want to be with you." good fit for the relationship.
Amy I am a happily married man living a "You say an American version of your wife
fun life. Any objective person would be would not be interested in you. What
able to see your considerations are exactly does that mean?"
clouded with hate and bigotry. You hate I said she would not notice me. This
the idea of American men having means I would not catch the eye of an
alternatives to American women, and you extremely beautiful American woman 18
have a superiority complex and a years younger than me.
prejudice towards foreign women. A "What is an American "version" of your
confidant woman would not be threatened wife?"
by competition, but it appears to scare The short answer is a top of the line
you. You hide your fear under the guise woman with super model looks in the prime
that you care about these women to the of her youth with a college education.
point that you fabricate their condition "How do you qualify that statement?"
and what is in their hearts. If anyone I will quantify it for you a perfect 10.






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